Daisy: Words of Abuse
Why are humans so negative?
Because they don't have anything to be happy about. See for yourself what the world looks like, is that something to be happy and grateful for? There are many who are positive, though, which is good, because we need more positivity.
How can we be more positive?
Realise you are a part of the big picture. That the weather is bad is nothing you can do anything about, so instead of getting worked up about it, dress according to the weather and let it be. If anyone's complaining, it's not for you to take offense. Sure, if it's a direct complaint about you, but often it's just hearing someone whine over something, and you become whiny yourself, because the energy is pulled down. If everyone realised that behind every word is a feeling, humans would talk a lot less.
Shouldn't we just use words more carefully?
Yes, it would've been good if more people thought that way, but I don't think a lot of them do. I've heard that it's said that words can inflict wounds and that words are like weapons. That's exactly how it is. Every word is an emotion, and words like hate doesn't give off a nice feeling, because it has a negative energy around itself, and it's that energy you exchange when you're communicating with another person.
Should we banish the word hate from our vocabularies?
No, I don't think that would do anyone any good, to be honest. It wouldn't work to prohibit the use of certain words and say it's some sort of taboo to feel the emotion that is associated with it, because the feeling is not going to go away. What you can do is to stop abusing words instead. Words like hate are thrown around like autumn leaves on the wind. How many times have you heard "I hate you!" or "I hate fish!" or something like that? Those who say they hate someone are either secretly in love with them, or they're upset for the moment and want to vent their anger, but they don't actually hate anyone. I don't like fish, but I wouldn't say I hate it, because I don't have any personal aggressions toward the fish, who I'm not even acquainted with. It's just that I don't appreciate it's flavour, because it's not a flavour that satisfies my tastebuds.
Another word that also suffers a lot of abuse is love. People shout "I love you!" when they're just happy that something turned out the way they wanted it to, or they've got something they wanted. It's not love, it's just a satisfied need to get your own way. Love isn't about that. Love and to love is about being filled by love from the nose to the tip of the tail, and to vibrate in harmony with All. It's love without limitations. Unconditional love is to not expect anything in return. Something in return would be like "I love you... because you gave me a new ball". That criteria have to be fulfilled in order to get the reward of love in the end. "If you love me, you take care of the laundry for me." What's that if it's not a condition? Loving someone without expecting anything back, is unconditional love.
Because they don't have anything to be happy about. See for yourself what the world looks like, is that something to be happy and grateful for? There are many who are positive, though, which is good, because we need more positivity.
How can we be more positive?
Realise you are a part of the big picture. That the weather is bad is nothing you can do anything about, so instead of getting worked up about it, dress according to the weather and let it be. If anyone's complaining, it's not for you to take offense. Sure, if it's a direct complaint about you, but often it's just hearing someone whine over something, and you become whiny yourself, because the energy is pulled down. If everyone realised that behind every word is a feeling, humans would talk a lot less.
Shouldn't we just use words more carefully?
Yes, it would've been good if more people thought that way, but I don't think a lot of them do. I've heard that it's said that words can inflict wounds and that words are like weapons. That's exactly how it is. Every word is an emotion, and words like hate doesn't give off a nice feeling, because it has a negative energy around itself, and it's that energy you exchange when you're communicating with another person.
Should we banish the word hate from our vocabularies?
No, I don't think that would do anyone any good, to be honest. It wouldn't work to prohibit the use of certain words and say it's some sort of taboo to feel the emotion that is associated with it, because the feeling is not going to go away. What you can do is to stop abusing words instead. Words like hate are thrown around like autumn leaves on the wind. How many times have you heard "I hate you!" or "I hate fish!" or something like that? Those who say they hate someone are either secretly in love with them, or they're upset for the moment and want to vent their anger, but they don't actually hate anyone. I don't like fish, but I wouldn't say I hate it, because I don't have any personal aggressions toward the fish, who I'm not even acquainted with. It's just that I don't appreciate it's flavour, because it's not a flavour that satisfies my tastebuds.
Another word that also suffers a lot of abuse is love. People shout "I love you!" when they're just happy that something turned out the way they wanted it to, or they've got something they wanted. It's not love, it's just a satisfied need to get your own way. Love isn't about that. Love and to love is about being filled by love from the nose to the tip of the tail, and to vibrate in harmony with All. It's love without limitations. Unconditional love is to not expect anything in return. Something in return would be like "I love you... because you gave me a new ball". That criteria have to be fulfilled in order to get the reward of love in the end. "If you love me, you take care of the laundry for me." What's that if it's not a condition? Loving someone without expecting anything back, is unconditional love.
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